The Differences between Men and Women in Communication Patterns
The points that girls made about being able to talk for hours comfortably about so many different things are really interesting. Women can talk and talk and talk for hours about something not important. She and her friend should waste their time on something important . How can she spend this length of time without getting bored .Men are not like this. When they have something to say, they say it. It does not take us two hours to make a point. We can say it in one sentence. I can say, “I don’t like that girl” and right away everyone know what I think. I do not have to spend the next two hours saying why. Men want to have conversations that have meaning and are important. We do not want to waste our time talking and talking . We do not need to have exercise for our tongues. Men can sit in the same room together and say nothing for hours and still be comfortable with each other. This is not possible for women. If there is silence in a room of women they are all worried what the others are thinking about. They cannot stand the silence and will have to start talking because they are afraid that the others are thinking bad things about them. To stop these possible bad thoughts, they talk. Men do not care if other men are thinking good or bad things about them.
The points that girls made about being able to talk for hours comfortably about so many different things are really interesting. Women can talk and talk and talk for hours about something not important. She and her friend should waste their time on something important . How can she spend this length of time without getting bored .Men are not like this. When they have something to say, they say it. It does not take us two hours to make a point. We can say it in one sentence. I can say, “I don’t like that girl” and right away everyone know what I think. I do not have to spend the next two hours saying why. Men want to have conversations that have meaning and are important. We do not want to waste our time talking and talking . We do not need to have exercise for our tongues. Men can sit in the same room together and say nothing for hours and still be comfortable with each other. This is not possible for women. If there is silence in a room of women they are all worried what the others are thinking about. They cannot stand the silence and will have to start talking because they are afraid that the others are thinking bad things about them. To stop these possible bad thoughts, they talk. Men do not care if other men are thinking good or bad things about them.
2 comments:
Sadd, nice pictures on your blog! And taking with friends is an absolutely worth thing for women, in order to create intimacy. :) well done and take care!
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